“Enough. Seriously. Enough!”

by DanWolgemuth on October 16, 2026

As a young boy, I distinctly remember how suspiciously my father viewed our freshly acquired television. It was an untested and not entirely trustworthy guest in our home.

It “lived” in our basement.

As his tolerance began to increase, rules of engagement began to emerge. One was particularly memorable. When an advertisement for cigarettes aired, my father required us to rush to the set (we were the “incarnated remote control”), turn down the volume, and stand in front of the screen… effectively blocking any image that might inspire us to light up!

This practice persisted until 1971, when the federal government became his source of restraint.

Last night, as I watched Game Two of the postseason baseball matchup between the Guardians and the Rays, I felt my father’s advertising ire rise to the surface. This wasn’t because of an invitation to smoke, but because of a provocative and offensive ad from Novig, a sports gambling platform.

Actress Sydney Sweeney was the conduit for the messaging. (and an equity partner in Novig).

Frankly, it felt like the 2026 version of the conversation between a serpent and Eve in the Garden.

Appalling simply isn’t strong enough.

While mothers and fathers should be explaining to their children why they keep referring to Cleveland as “the Indians,” or what happens when a runner tags up, those same parents are instead grabbing for the remote or doing their best to distract their children. Or worse, simply allowing the invasion to persist without comment.

The mainstreaming of gambling, amplified through sexually provocative imagery, is a direct assault on what we value. It’s an attack on hearts and minds, especially the impressionable hearts and minds of young men.

Advertising doesn’t simply reflect culture. It shapes culture. And what we tolerate today has an uncanny way of becoming what we accept tomorrow.

There was a time when cigarette advertising was simply part of the cultural landscape. Beautiful people. Memorable jingles. Celebrity endorsements. And an addictive product wrapped in the promise of a better life.

Sound familiar?

Gambling addiction is real. And its damage to individuals and families can be every bit as devastating as the damage cigarettes inflict on the lungs.

And to make matters worse, celebrity endorsements provide a wildly unwelcome amplification, overlooking the fact that gambling can become a reverse Robin Hood. Taking from those who have little to line the pockets of those who have plenty.

It’s wealth redistribution without a moral compass.

I wonder what happens when a generation of young men grows up believing that every sporting event is an opportunity to make money, and every loss is an invitation to try again.

Enough.

I simply can’t sit on the couch anymore and watch. It’s wrong, and it shouldn’t be passively tolerated.

I don’t know what that means for you, but for me, it might mean phone calls or emails. Perhaps it’s time to let the networks know that our families are watching. To remind advertisers that there are limits to what we’re willing to welcome into our living rooms.

It clearly includes honest dialogue with phone-carrying young people about the dangers hiding behind the promise of easy money.

It might also include notes on celebrity fan sites, reminding those who endorse these platforms that they may be peddling potential destruction.

1971 reminds me that public concern can eventually produce meaningful policy changes.

My father didn’t have a remote control. He had his children.

I have a remote control. I have a phone. I have a voice.

And I intend to use them.

Perhaps 1971 has something to teach us about 2026.

I’d like to get back to explaining the infield fly rule and what it means to hit for the cycle.

Care to join me?

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“A Like Above All Other Likes”

by DanWolgemuth on October 2, 2026

The appearance pressure on women is nearly suffocating. Absolutely exhausting. From teenagers to senior citizens, the quest for aesthetics is a relentless treadmill. An unachievable objective.

Even within Christian circles, there have been long standing and passionate debates related to women that involve clothing, hair, jewelry, and yes, roles and responsibilities.

In fact, I grew up with a legacy of gender roles that included women and men sitting in different sections in the church.

Perhaps all of this made the reading from Proverbs 31 this week more powerful and impactful than at any other time in my life.

Few passages in Scripture offer such a comprehensive and compelling portrait of noble character. And remarkably, this portrait is of a woman. In fact, the author of this beautiful text defines a Noble woman by using verbs. Words of action. Here they are:

Rewards

Selects

Works

Brings

Rises

Provides

Evaluates

Buys

Plants

Draws

Reveals

Sees

Extends

Holds

Reaches

Makes

Sells

Delivers

Laughs

Speaks

Watches

These are strong words. Leadership words. Powerful words.

They speak loudly of productivity, business savvy, courage, attentiveness, wisdom, grit and sacrifice.

These are not the words of passivity or insignificance. They are the words of dignity, initiative and strength.

And beneath all this activity is the foundation of her character: she fears the Lord.

Note the absence of appearance-based words.

These inspired words leave little doubt about the respect such women deserve and the responsibilities they are capable of carrying. And yes, they are flawlessly written.

While our culture applauds high cheek bones, God clearly elevates high character.

While the Church has tended to be dismissive or condescending, the Bible doesn’t substantiate such a posture.

Noble women are models. Teachers. Guides.

They are to be esteemed and respected. They are to be engaged and elevated. Never underestimated or marginalized. And this is not a new or enlightened view, this is Biblical. Yes, written at least 700 BC.

And the author knew full well, that “charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting.”

The approval of others may come in the form of likes and followers. But the approval that matters most isn’t found on a screen. It’s found in the words, “A woman who fears the Lord will be praised.”

As the result of this, men (and others) have an assignment… a Biblical command.

“Give her everything she deserves! Adorn her life with praises!”(Proverbs 31:31, MSG)

Yes, everything she deserves. It’s Biblical.

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“The Test”

September 18, 2026

It was Graham’s turn to lead. Specifically, the Bible study that Graham, Desmond and I have every few weeks. The leadership rotation moves from Graham to Desmond, then back again. Eighteen months ago, we made the switch from “Pops” leading to the young men leading. And it’s been wonderful. Humbling really. Last week was a […]

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“But mostly it’s about…”

September 4, 2026

In August, our grandson Desmond turned 16 years old. I assure you, that’s a bit mind-blowing to his grandparents. With that said, this milestone tugged me back to one of my favorite Desmond moments from eleven years prior. The lesson worked then, and it works now… It was just about bedtime, but Desmond had a […]

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“Old Growth”

August 21, 2026

Today, I embarked on a lengthy hike along the Rogue River in Central Oregon. Honestly, I underestimated the beauty of this state. After all, I live in one of the prettiest states in the country. Colorado has it all: rugged landscapes, awe-inspiring views, and towering peaks—over 50 that rise above 14,000 feet. But Colorado is […]

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“Eavesdropping on a Conversation with God”

August 7, 2026

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance […]

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“Easier?”

July 24, 2026

In 1986, Greg LeMond became the first non-European cyclist to win the prestigious Tour de France. His accomplishment not only changed professional cycling – it inspired countless amateur cyclists as well.     During his career, LeMond was often asked whether cycling became easier as his conditioning improved and his equipment advanced. His response has […]

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“Wisdom, Not Weakness”

July 10, 2026

All 19 of us had gathered on Main Street in downtown Frisco, Colorado, after the annual Fourth of July parade. Pockets were filled with candy tossed our way during the event, and now it was time to sort out transportation back to our rental home while accommodating a variety of evolving plans. One vehicle would […]

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“Equal Parts”

June 26, 2026

She was barely 18 when I first noticed her. My memory is that it was in a cafeteria line, though there were other places across campus where our paths crossed as well. There was no simple way to explain what it was that tugged me in her direction. But tugged I was. Equal parts mystery […]

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“Now. Therefore. Arise. Go…”

June 12, 2026

In May of 2021, Robert Wolgemuth published his book, Gun Lap. Less than two years later he released Finish Line. Both books focused on the imperative of living the later years of life with intentionality, focus, generosity, and purpose. As Robert’s younger brother, I engaged with him frequently as this work was underway. And certainly, […]

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