Pay Attention

by DanWolgemuth on June 27, 2025

It was a beautifully cool Colorado summer night—the perfect invitation for a walk at dusk. And so, we embraced the opportunity.

Our pace invited exploration, and we charted a path through a wooded section of our neighborhood. This area was especially intriguing because we’d spotted owls here before—but not for months.

Mary, who normally walks at a brisk, healthy pace, set aside her reputation in favor of the chance to glimpse our feathered neighbor.

I looked, too. Carefully. But not like Mary.

“I see an owl!” she whispered, her voice filled with quiet passion, enthusiasm, and delight. “On one of the low branches of the tree on the right.” Then, her classic response: “Thank you, Jesus.”

And yes—there it was. As though painted on an artist’s canvas: a breathtakingly beautiful Great Horned Owl.

We stood for a while, watching with gratitude. Hoping for a hoot. But silence was the language of the evening.

Author Frederick Buechner once wrote, “To love God means to pay attention, be mindful, be open to the possibility that God is with you in ways that, unless you have your eyes open, you may never glimpse.”

Pay attention.
Spoken not as a reprimand, but as an invitation.

Look and see. Pause and reflect. Even with the sounds of traffic, lawn equipment, and the ever-present drone of planes overhead from Denver International… pay attention.

Mary does this well. In part because her focal point is different than mine. In fact, moments later, I saw something before she did: a freshly crushed snake on the road as we made our way back home.

I’m making sure I don’t trip, while Mary is making sure she doesn’t miss a sacred glimpse.
I’m avoiding failure.
Mary is embracing opportunity.

Her eyes are tuned to capture the unexpected—always with delight. With wonder. With gratitude.

Pay attention. Not to the headlines, or the commentary, or the podcasts, or the markets, or the threats…
But to the confident assurance that God is present.
Always. Everywhere.

In the cool of a summer evening walk.
And in the midst of brokenness, pain, confusion, even desperation.

God said it plainly to Job:

“Pay attention, O Job, listen to me;
be silent, and I will speak.”

Sometimes He speaks through an owl.
Sometimes through a “low whisper” (1 Kings 19:12).
Sometimes with laughter.
Sometimes through tears.
Sometimes on a global stage.
Sometimes in your backyard.

Calibrate your gaze.
Adjust your focal point.
Catch a glimpse of His love.

P.S. – Happy Birthday, Mary! Thanks for paying attention the many ways that you do.

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Yes, I Caught the Big One

by DanWolgemuth on June 20, 2025

Originally posted 15 years ago. Still true today.

With summer activities in full swing, I thought it fitting to revisit this reflection. The reminder it offers feels as timely as ever: summer can easily become as congested and frustrating as Denver traffic. Resist the urge to simply push through. Discover moments to savor. Invest in relationships that matter. Don’t get swept into the vortex of activity that hijacks joy.
 
I was just minutes from wrapping up a half-day on the North Platte River near Casper, Wyoming. By all accounts, it had been a good outing—despite failing to land “The Big One.” With our take-out point in sight, I saw my strike indicator disappear with authority. A quick, deliberate snap of my rod, and I had my fish.
 
What followed was a test of strength and will—both mine and the fish’s. While I had caught other fish that day, it was clear that this was different. Even our guide gave me a knowing glance that confirmed what I already suspected: this was a special fish.
 
With my fly rod arched to its limit, I brought the trout up toward the net. It was then I got my first full view of the shimmering Rainbow… and just as suddenly, the line went limp. Gone. Escaped. Only the mental snapshot remained.

The big one. I lost the big one.
 
But here’s what surprised me: I wasn’t disappointed.
 
Instead, what washed over me were images from the whole float trip. Alli, my daughter, landing the first fish of the day with comical ease. Mary, my boat partner, asking the guide to hold her beautiful catch while I snapped the photo—her smile still fueling me. The river, the laughter, the joy wrapped in every moment… It all overwhelmed any sense of loss.
 
Truthfully, I caught the big one the moment our boats touched the water.
 
No missed catch could compete with the joy already banked in the experience.
 
Yes indeed… I caught the Big One.
“Let the rivers clap their hands; let the hills sing for joy together.”
— Psalm 98:8 (ESV)

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Always a Student: A Father’s Day Reflection

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I can’t help but wonder when the explosion of graduation ceremonies took place. The fuse to that trend certainly wasn’t lit by 1977, the year I graduated from college. Fast forward to 2025, and now—as grandparents—we’ve celebrated a kindergarten graduation and two eighth-grade graduations, all in the same season. Graduation is about completion. Finality. Closure. […]

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It was Michelangelo who brilliantly said, “The sculpture is already complete within the marble block, before I start my work. It is already there, I just have to chisel away the superfluous material.” Perhaps he was echoing the perspective of Jesus during the Pharisaical uproar over the praise being lavished on Him just a week […]

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Not long after Mary and I moved to Franklin, Tennessee in 1987, we gathered our three kids and two Nashville nieces and set out on a Christmas tree hunt. We’d heard about a local tree farm with an outstanding selection, so we borrowed my brother’s larger vehicle and headed out for what we hoped would […]

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In a tear…

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In a tear. Through a tear. With a tear… Jesus shows the way. In the quiet moments of the morning on May 5, 2010, Donald William Cargo showed us the way, too. His four children, his beloved wife, and a few others were gathered at his bedside. His body, no longer able to fight the […]

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Even at 70

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Somewhere, tucked inside the fog of distant childhood memories, is an unforgettable interaction with a man who himself stayed in the shadows. Graybill Wolgemuth was my father’s father—a man with persistently whining hearing aids, an unwelcoming beard, a posture of seriousness, and a famine of words. He walked with God. Quietly. Stoically. Obediently. Joylessly. There […]

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On April 16, 1978, in St. Louis, Bob Forsch pitched the first no-hitter of his major league career as a member of the St. Louis Cardinals—a 5-0 victory over the Philadelphia Phillies. I know about this milestone because I was there. Or more precisely, Mary and I were there, bundled together in the bleak, drizzly […]

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Solspeil

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It’s dark. Division, dissension, bitterness, hatred, prejudice, war, natural disasters, and loneliness all seem to be having their day. It’s hard to watch. Job put it this way—and he put it well:“Why do the wicked have it so good,live to a ripe old age and get rich?They get to see their children succeed,get to watch […]

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